Magazine
for Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy
STRESS SAVER
By Anne H. Spencer, Ph.D
Stress - you can
get it under control!
No matter what you think, overstress has a solution. Before we discuss
the solutions let's look at the following:
A. Stress
and your blood pressure - Is there a link between stress and high blood
pressure? Effects may vary, but when you are under stress, your mind
and body go into high gear. Repeated stress and tension over time appear
to contribute to an increase in blood pressure in some people.
B. Smoking
and Stress-
- The short-term
effects of smoking are: It encourages irregular heartbeats.
- It makes existing
heart disease worse, which can result in attacks of angina (pain in
the heart).
- Nicotine, the
addictive drug in tobacco products, raises blood pressure and heart
rate. The changes make the heart work faster.
- The long term
effects are: Cholesterol and plaque collect on the lining of vessel
walls, resulting in heart attacks, angina, strokes and many other
problems that produce "over-stress" on the body.
- Smoking just
four cigarettes a day increases your risk of heart attack by 50 percent.
- Risk of cardiac
death is two to four times greater among smokers.
C. Your stress
is your own! Do you feel under stress? Then you are. Somebody may tell
you, "You don't have any big problems. You shouldn't feel under stress."
The fact is, if you feel under stress you are. Stress like any feeling
is very personal.
D. How does
stress feel to you? Physical symptoms - like an upset stomach, loss
of appetite, overeating, chronic headache, insomnia, rashes, rapid heartbeat
- are signs of stress. Some feelings can be signs of stress too. Do
you feel any of the following?
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Anxious
Apathetic
Depressed
Flustered
Frazzled
Frustrated
Harried
Hurried
Irritable
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Overworked
Panicked
Pressured
Tense
Tired
Uptight
Worn out
Worried
Wound
up
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If you have any
of the above, they may be warning signs that you are in an "over-stress"
mode. Your body and emotions are attempting to give you a message. The
following are ways to deal better with stress in your life.
- Slow down!
Do you rush through each day trying to meet impossible deadlines?
You may help lower your stress by better management of your time.
Be realistic in your goals - establish priorities. Use "to
do" lists as an aid in organizing time. Schedule time each day to
RELAX - even if it's only for a short time, say 10 minutes, no phone,
no TV, no kids, etc.
- Sing, dance,
& exercise stress away! Exercise can help you deal with stress.
Walking, dancing, swimming are all good. Be sure to do something you
like, as pleasure voids stress. Consult with your physician before
beginning an exercise program. Keep getting regular blood pressure
checks.
- Take a mental
vacation. Sit or lie down where you can be alone, where no one
will disturb you. Close your eyes. Very slowly, take three deep breaths.
Slowly count backward from ten to one. Imagine your self in a restful
place, a favorite room, at the shore, in the mountains, on a sail
boat or in a garden. In fact, you can go to your place of peace. Make
it up if you like. Your body can not tell the difference between real
or imagined experiences. Let yourself enjoy the place you have chosen.
Or you could simply focus on a word or phrase such as, "I am calm
and relaxed." If your thoughts wander, don't worry, just refocus.
Do this for 15 minutes a day. Once a day is good, twice a day is better
and three times a day is excellent. Using your mind to enhance your
body is a great gift, one that only you can give to yourself.
Use these solutions
for a period of thirty days. At the end of a month you will notice a changed
person.....You!
Copyright ©
1998 to the author. Reprinted with kind permission
Anne H. Spencer,
Ph.D. 4110 Edgeland, Suite 800 Royal Oak, MI 48073-2285 248/549-5594.
Dr. Spencer is the founder of Infinity Institute, a state licensed school
to teach hypnosis. Her courses include self-hypnosis, visualization, mental
imagery, regression and more. Visit the institute web site at http://www.infinityinst.com
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