Magazine
for Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy
Hypnosis for the Female
Reproductive System
by Maurice Kouguell,
Ph.D.,BCETS.
While it has long
been recognized that there are differences between men and women, a
lot of understanding of the gender difference has been neglected until
quite recently.
A women's menstrual cycle is not something that just happens. It is
a constant process of change, thus in contrast to men there is a continuous
change in the concentration level in the blood of the hormones regulating
menstruation and ovulation. These hormones have been connected with
the types of information substances which must relate state dependent
memory, mood and learning. Psychologists have recognized the rhythmic
biological basis, psychological complexes and the emotional life of
women.
Thus the psychological complexes can find their etiology in what is
referred to as the emotional shock that comes about and is related to
birth trauma. Oxytocyn, which is an information substance released in
massive amounts during labor, regulates lactation and behavior associated
with motherhood. Associated with that process are emotional feelings
of depression and the feeling of loss.
Recently oxytocyn has been found to be connected with mother/child bonding.
This has resulted in the interest and need to use regression through
hypnosis to go back to the time of the birth process.
In an actual case
recorded during hypnosis the patient remembered not only the birth process
but also many of the earlier traumatic memories that have been linked
to it. Hypnosis was used effectively to help her mature, as she was
able to recover the traumatic memories. Since this is a purely gender
characteristic of the female who experiences many of these changes in
the hormones and the mind/gene process, it is impossible for the male
to properly appreciate those feelings and experiences.
For a long time women have been stigmatized and (ignoring the psychobiological
insights in accounting for their behavior) they have been looked down
on as indecisive and changeable. With this behavior being recognized
and reinforced by others, some women could in fact behave in the expected
way of this self-fulfilling prophecy. The understanding of the significance
of the biological differences are especially essential in the three
main stages of change in a woman's life, this being pregnancy, giving
birth and child rearing.
Dr. Cheek, coauthor
of 'Mind Body Therapy' has been a pioneer about the attitudes and understanding
of the female psychobiological and psychological changes and has had
great impact in the field of obstetrics and gynecology. In the past
decade there have been experiences, investigations and research into
the birth orgasm.
Many physicians and female psychotherapists have described the ecstatic
experience of childbirth which is really a prolonged orgasmic response.
Reports have indicated that rest periods during the ultradian rhythm
may help overcome stress and psychosomatic difficulties and pain, illness
is described as an imbalance between the environment and the person.
Stress coming from outside may lower the resistance of the person and
affect normal functional processes. The physician is to be concerned
about finding repeated reserves of energy in the patient and yet having
to return the patient to a balance with the environment and within himself.
Regardless of the gender of the patient, negative forces such as guilt,
need for punishment, take on a greater importance when the disease continues
in spite of therapeutic interventions. It is important for the healer
to recognize the passive submission to the disease as well as the unconscious
level of pleasure derived by the patient in avoiding getting well.
Hypnosis remains
the tool for uncovering those sources. People have three levels of thoughts
which at times could be delineated or contradictory. We react consciously
in one way while at a deeper level of unconscious attitude we understand
things literally and may not allow our unconscious to have a sense of
humor. Somehow in the area between the conscious and unconscious areas
is where there is a lot of confusion of thoughts that come through,
such as unresolved anxieties. In traditional conversation between patient
and psychotherapist one can rarely access the unconscious level and
again when we access that deeper level the patient can receive a tremendous
benefit and help in fighting for his recovery.
In the therapeutic encounter with patients, we find "the law of reversed
effect", where the harder the effort is expanded, the less the results
are obtained. In working with patients, the corollary of this law are
also true. Thus, giving patients confidence in the success of an assigned
task, such as allowing the patient to develop anesthesia for any part
of their body in need of it, (after having learned how to use it on
another part which is not in need of it.
Another corollary which is described at times as the "slip back phenomenon"
is to set up the patient to think that if the procedure is too good
to be followed, what might happen if it is discontinued out of choice.
These patients need to understand that relapses are normal and their
own efforts will be rewarded, although their motivation is to prove
that the therapist may be wrong.
Hypnosis has been
used for correcting fertility problems. Frequently infertile patients
suffer from sexual inhibitions which cause non-orgasmic responses. Many
mechanistic methods for overcoming the non-orgasmic response (such as
knee/chest position, the uses of pillows, keeping track of basal temperature
changes) have caused not only deterioration on the woman's part but
also have provoked secondary impotence in husbands. Here again the law
of reverse effect seems to be applicable, namely the harder you try
the more you are aware of what has to be done and trying too hard only
provokes further failure. Hypnosis has been successfully used in gynecological
problems to control bleeding which is either organically or psychologically
based.
Patients in crisis
are already on their way to being hypnotized and hypnosis is of great
value here. Patients report that bleeding increases as fear increases.
Many of these fears, under hypnosis and regression, seem to be related
to acquired fears and attitudes either from family members or friends.
Dr. Cheek gives numerous examples of how hypnosis can be used to alter
sensations, uncover unconscious factors and prevent a patient from undergoing
surgery.
The validation of the response has been investigated. Although in the
long run, the validity may not be of essence, the results are meaningful
and have been of assistance to both the patient and the therapist. There
is a possibility of a contamination of the response by the therapist
to the patient, the similarity here is a little bit like the effect
of the coach on the sportsman and what really matters in the long run
is the functioning of the sports person. The important thing in this
case is the expectancy of success. Thus, the therapist presents all
the questions in an optimistic way and with hypnotic methods. This purposefully
slanted way of asking questions might influence the patient unconsciously
to respond in a more helpful way.
The question has also been raised: Do some patients do better with a
good "coach" in the courts? Is it valid to treat patients with expectancies
of happy results even though the prognoses may not be happy? Karl Menniger
wrote a paper on "Hope." His position is that a therapist who has an
unbounded potential of understanding for the patient in his struggle
for getting better, can in no way do harm in constantly being positive,
optimistic and giving hope. In the past century or so tremendous advances
have been appearing with great frequency where patients have been proven
to be capable of responding to the thoughts and the philosophies of
hope. However, this hope needs to be based on some degree of reality.
Dr. Cheek reports his technique of discussing the forthcoming baby clothes
and talk about the progress of the fetus. A segment of the population
is reluctant to discuss this for fear of "bad luck." Apparently this
has been related to abortions or catastrophic pregnancies. An objection
has been raised by psychiatrists who question the advisability of obstetricians
and general practitioners delving into psychiatric and psychological
areas with their patients. In his approach and technique which is clearly
defined, Dr. Cheek sees that there are absolutely no indication of any
danger due to the patient taking into account their unconscious thinking.
While there are definite physiological factors which might bring about
an abortion, such as congenital abnormalities of the uterus, lethal
genes in the embryo, viral infections causing severe defects, nutritional
deficiencies, toxins. When these are ruled out attention needs to be
turned to the psychological components. To that end, a thorough emotional
history is obtained from the patient for there are certain factors that
have crucial bearings on the success of a pregnancy. The following points
are suggested to be covered:
- History of the
patient's mother including serious illness
- The birth of
the patient - rule out the guilt of mother's difficulty as a result
- Starting life
feeling unwanted as a child and as a girl, history of serious illness
during childhood leaving the patient feeling very inadequate
- Death of a parent
or a divorce before the patient's age of ten, thus the patient assuming
guilt and responsibility for that event
- Concern of the
parent if the beginning of menstruation does not start by age fifteen
- History of abdominal
surgery; being molested as a child unconscious guilt from past spontaneous
or induced abortion
- Unconscious
hostility toward any member of the husband's family, thus causing
her to reject the identification of the newborn baby with any of the
family members
- A severe history
of menstrual cramps and having heard or overheard phrases such as
"if you think that is bad just wait until you have a baby."
Maurice Kouguell
Ph.D., BCETS. (Click here for Biography)
Director: Brookside Center for Counseling and Hypnotherapy
997 Clinton Place, Baldwin New York 11510
phone/fax 516 868-2233 e-mail contact@brooksidecenter.com
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